在王尔德慵懒的字里行间，用温柔的姿态读懂爱情
Oscar Wilde 奥斯卡 · 王尔德，十九世纪英国唯美主义艺术运动的倡导者，他是一个浪漫的男人，爱美也风流，他装扮惹眼、谈吐机智、特立独行，有人因此他着迷，但也有更多人对他冷嘲热讽。
曾经因为“同性恋”被告上法庭、历经长久的审判，但他坚持以独特美感与洒脱的人生观横行天下，不为任何既定框架屈服，外人眼中的放荡不羁，却是看透人性与爱情的人。王尔德用浪漫华丽的文字，写下生命中的开过的每朵花、经过的每阵风，在他慵懒的字里行间里，用温柔的姿态读懂人生真理。
#1
当爱情走到尽头，软弱者哭个不停，有率的马上去寻找下一个目标，而聪明的早就预备了下一个。
When a love comes to an end, weaklings cry, efficient ones instantly find another love and wise already had one in reserve.
#2
我喜欢有未来的男人和有过去的女人。
I like men who have a future and women who have a past.
#3
男女之间不可能存在友谊，有的只是爱恨情仇。
Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.
#4
对富有的单身汉应该客以重税。让某些人比其他人更快乐是不公平的。
Rich bachelors should be heavily taxed. It is not fair that some men should be happier than others.
#5
女人是用来被爱的，不是用来被理解的。
Women are meant to be loved, not to be understood.
#6
如果一个女人不能让她犯的错误变得迷人，她就只是一个雌性动物。
“If a woman can’t make her mistakes charming, she is only a female.”
#7
爱，始于自我欺骗，终于欺骗他人。这就是所谓的浪漫。
When one is in love, one always begins by deceiveing one’s self, and one always ends by deceiving others. That is what would calls a romance.